Florida

Florida

Wow, the afternoon before we left my mom called and said she didn't have good news. My parents went to Target and my Dad stumbled coming out and toppled over onto my Mom. My Dad is 250lbs and my mom around 140lbs. My mom ended up with a broken wrist. She was sent to an orthopedic and had a 6pm appointment. I took her to the appointment fearing the worst. Luckily she ended up only needing a cast for 4 weeks and lots of bruises. The good news was they could still go to Florida with us. Although now we had two parents and two kids to care for!

We flew out on a 8 am flight and next time we need to allow for an extra half an hour at the airport. Traveling with 2 car seats, a pack and play and strollers was hectic. Southwest was fantastic and our flight time was cut short by 20 minutes. We arrived in Tampa and picked up our minivan. We were able to grocery shop and eat lunch before heading to the condo. The Publix we went to had a parking garage underneath and it required us to take an elevator up to the store. Evan and Sara thought this was great. Evan cried when we landed that he wanted to go back to New York.

Our condo was nice 3 bedrooms directly on the beach. The ocean was less than 100 yards away. Surprisingly the sand wasn't hot to walk on. We have been to Ocean City, MD and SC, and VA and had to wear sandals because the sand was very hot. The kids loved the beach, they loved to pick up seashells, wade in the water, and chase the birds. Evan was drawn to each sand castle with a look in his eye that we knew he wanted to destroy them. Luckily we kept every ones hard work safe from Evan. Sara loved the seashells, although Evan saved them and Sara threw them back in. We had a great time in the pool. On the last day Evan finally was brave enough to swim on his own with swimmies. We battled this all summer and there was another boy the same age also named Evan who was doing it so he caved to peer pressure.

We visited the Florida Aquarium, it is amazing. I didn't research it enough because there is a splash park that we didn't go in since I didn't bring extra clothes. We actually spent 3 hours there - a record for my kids! We were able to get half off tickets with our Buffalo Zoo membership so we spent $41.00 for my parents and us, (I wasn't honest about Evans age). We also had to visit a Disney Store. My Dad had promised Evan he would buy him some more CARS. Evans eyes lit up and he thought it was great. We asked Evan what the best part of Florida and the first time he told us stickers, and every time since he has told us the Disney Store. Our local store closed a few years ago. The mall we went to had an indoor ice rink. The kids loved watching the skating. I plan on signing up Evan for lessons in the fall.

I bought some CARS sticker books with reusable stickers. The Cars have to match up to the name, shape, or location. This kept Evan busy for most of the plane ride. I ended up buying another one at the Disney store for the ride home. He did stickers and then fell asleep watching a movie.

Sara's speech exploded in Florida we now have pool, swimsuit, ice cream, down, go, baby, high chair, Binky, bear. One night I took her for laps around the building and each time we reached the street she would see the ice cream store and she would point say ice cream and Mm mm. Needless to say she did not fall asleep in the stroller that night.

As much as I love to travel its tough with little ones, its hard to take them out to eat. We rush through meals just to get out of the restaurant. I didn't bring Sara's portable high chair and she loves to climb out of the restaurant ones.

We had a great time together and the kids love the beach. Evan cried he didn't want to go home he wanted to stay in Florida. My mom was able to use the pool a bit with a cast cover on.

3.5 Years!! I'm going for 42 facts about Evan

1. Complete Mommy's boy, he tells me he loves me, will kiss my arms out of the blue. The only downfall is he always wants to be with me. If I go anywhere he wants to come along.

2. CARS we are obsessed with them, he plays with the die cast cars all day long.

3. CARS again,he calls me Sally (the beautiful porshe and Lightening McQueen's girlfriend) all day long and he tells me I'm not Evan I'm lightning. So I hear Sally, Sally and of course I'm not paying attention and he keeps calling me it until I respond.

4. He still loves his blue bear and his monkey pillow pets.

5. Evan loves to sing, rhyme, and dance. Anything he can learn the lyrics to quickly he is happy with.

6. We love our neighbors Joe and Dominic. Everyday Evan asks to play with them and they play very well together.

7. The color yellow! Last summer we had to wear yellow everyday fortunately we outgrew that but he loves yellow clothes, flowers, and food.

8. We love to go places, Evan often wakes up and asks where are we going. In the winter I think he gets cabin fever and wants to escape even if its a trip to Target or Wegman's.

9. Evan loves summertime, he will tell us he loves wearing sandals, going barefoot, wearing shorts, and having Mommy home!

10. We love candy corn, lollipops, and gummy bears.

11. Evans favorite vegetable is broccoli, corn, and peas.

12. Favorite fruits are grapes, apples, raspberries, and peaches.

13. Favorite dinners pizza, mini ravioli., chicken and chicken noodle soup (Moms soup he tells me) but he will eat Campbell's Cars soup.

14. He loves to take a shower by himself. He will play forever in there and if I give him his color changing cars and a bowl of ice cubes its like a babysitter!

15. Our vocabulary is very advanced, he uses tenses correctly and sentence structure is very advanced. Sometimes I don't notice it until he is around his peers. Hopefully Sara will catch up to him this year! He has asked me for Thomas the train with the cylinder ( he meant Thomas and the Jet Engine). Today he showed me his left knuckles (not sure where he learned knuckles)

16. Evans memory is amazing. I told him we were going to the beach and he asked which one the one near where Daddy works? It took me a minute to remember that we stopped by and saw Marc at one of his deliveries last year on the way to the beach. Evan also remembered that we stopped and I bought him an orange juice. This was last July or August and we never talked about it after that day. I wish I could remember what happened last week!

17. The past few days we have been busy with left and right, 90% of the time he'll ask is this my left hand and it is! He then shows me left foot, right foot, arms, fingers, etc. I never initiated this, so its always a surprise when he comes up with these things.

18. Evan prefers Mom to anyone and often gets very upset (okay I'm putting it mildly, he gets furious) when I leave and have a babysitter. Earlier this week a former student of mine who has been here a few times came and he threw a temper and then wouldn't speak to her for 3 hours. Today I had a moms group at Fisher Price and Evan did great with Kaley a neighbor. He even is upset when left with Daddy.

19. Evan is of average height but is thin he is around 28-29lbs and still wears 12-18 month swim trunks and 18 month shorts. Without an adjustable waist we are in big trouble!

20. We gave up naps this summer. I made the mistake of letting the pacifier go on way to long, he only used it to sleep, we gave it up at night first and then in July gave it up during naps. Giving up the Binky made him refuse to nap. We went from a 2-3 hour nap to occasionally falling asleep on the couch. Oh... I was so tempted to give it back to him. After I adjusted to it, he plays quietly and I can still get things done.

21. Although he is very spoiled by us and Grandparents he always displays gratitude. He will tell us thank you throughout the day and tell us I had a great day with you. It melts my heart every time.

22. At the beginning of the summer I thought our extensive train collection would be packed away but Evan has fallen in love with it again.

23. Today at the Fisher Price Moms group for moms of 3-5 year old boys I was the only one that does not have an electronic preschool game for my child. The neighbor boys have them and Evan wants one because they have CARS but he has never shown any interest. We have all the preschool basics down and are working on reading. Am I the only one out there without a house full of electronics? We don't have the Wii or anything else exciting. I figured we have many years that our Christmases will be overshadowed by those items.

24. Evan has started watching Disney shows with real people in them, he also likes Phineas and Ferb (sp?) and Sponge bob( not my favorite).

25. He will finally drink 2 cups of milk a day and won't eat any dairy products other than eggs. We buy all juices fortified with Calcium.


26. Evan is quirky that if he has something one way in the future he wants it the same way. He will only eat homemade Chicken noodle soup with alphabet letters, he likes his sandwich cut in triangles, and will only try Orange smoothies.

27. Evan loves ice cream with rainbow sprinkles and he will alternate between chocolate and vanilla. He also loves Freezy Pops.

28. Evan is the easy child that doesn't get into things and will ask before touching something or doing something. I can leave him in the house alone for short periods or leave him downstairs while I shower and he will sit and play or watch cartoons. I'll cross my fingers and toes this behavior continues.

29. Evan likes to kiss Sara goodnight and to get her to say new words. Tonight he had her say "bad guy" and was very proud that she said it.

30. Evan is a shopper and loves to go to the store. Of course we always have to look at CARS toys he is generally pretty good when I say no, many times he is happy to hold a toy while we shop and then put it down before we leave. So far we have only had a handful of meltdowns.

31. We recently taught him to play tic tac toe and it was fun to watch him try and cheat and get very excited each time he "beat" us!

32. Evan loves going to our cottage, riding the boat, feeding the fish, and drum roll.... going on the tube with Mom! He won't do it with Daddy but will with Mom. Luckily we bought a huge tube and we don't get wet on it. I'm not a cold water person.

33. We love the playground, he loves the slides but prefers to sit in the toddler swings. His friends climbed the rock wall and he was upset that they did it. He won't attempt it. Sara proceeded to climb the entire wall by herself. This didn't bother Evan but he won't try it.

34. Evan loved spring and asks me when the Daffodils and Tulips will be back.

35. "Will you play with me?" is often heard in our house. He plays very well alone, but loves to have anyone else join him.

36. Sharing is not always smooth. Evan has favorite toys and will hold on to them so others can't touch them. He often does this with the neighbors or he will ask me to hold onto them. We have had many talks about sharing.

37. Marc travels a great deal and Evan misses him but sometimes takes a bit to warm up to him. Resulting in the preference for Mom to do everything with him, for him, etc.

38. Another favorite snack introduced by Dad are Doritos. The smell of them grosses me out. I came home today and cuddled Sara and noticed she had nasty breath, after seeing her hands I knew why. Evan had the babysitter give them Doritos. YUCK.

39. Evan loves nursery rhymes and still loves Ring Around the Rosy - he loves to do it with Sara.

40. Evan knows we are in New York and Grandma lives in S. Carolina. He can name 10+ states on a map correctly. Although he tells us Michigan is his favorite because it is yellow on our puzzle and has a car on it!

41. We haven't graduated to a big bed yet, we told Evan we would do it when he gave up the pacifier and he doesn't want to yet. I guess there is no reason to rush it. I'll continue to save for new bedding.

42. Whew, this was more difficult than I thought it would. Okay Potty time. Evan has been fully potty trained since 31 months. He still prefers to go on the baby potty or the potty seat and doesn't like to stand. Since we have hardwood in our bathroom I haven't pushed it. He hates the loud flushing in public bathrooms and tells me not to flush. The automatic ones at the airport caught him by surprise.

20 of Sara's Favorites

Wow my baby is twenty months!

1. Twenty words Moma, Dade, hi, bye (sounds like baa), woof, apple. Grandpa, cookie, more, cracker, yuck, bubbles, balloon, eat, up, bounce, moon, boat, duck, and ball. There are more but theses are what we hear most often.

2. She loves ouchies and will find anyones scratches or bruises and tell us boo boo with a sympathetic look.

3. Before bedtime she has to kiss and hug Evan saying ni-ni with a wave.

4. Sara loves Dogs and laughs almost screeching each time she sees one.

5. We love Freezy pops and Sara will often run to the freezer in hopes of having one. She says popsicle but it sounds similar to apple.

6. Sara loves Evans toys including Thomas ( trains are woo hoo) and his current favorite Disney Cars.

7. We love Laurie Berkner music and Wheels on the bus by the Bacon Brothers.

8. Talking on the phone is a big deal and she kisses the phone and says baa and will return the phone without tears.

9. Sleepimg with her Pink bear and a pacifier(hopefully this habit ends soon).

10. The neighbor boys Domenic and Joe are her favorite playmates. She will stand on the driveway or at the window and yell Ominic and O (O is said in a deep voice). The boys are 3 &4 and play very well with her.

11. Sara is a fish and loves the pool, she is also a daredevil and has to be watched like a hawk. She has taken a few trips down the slide being held and laughs her head off everytime. She is so independent that with swimmies and a ring around her I can let her swim alone for a few minutes.

12. The boat at the cottage is also a favorite, although my favorite thing is it often makes her fall asleep!

13. We love to play outside, the water table, the bikes, the pool. She is very active.

14. Sara is very brave on the swingset and climbs the ladder and the rockwall by herself. She also loves the slide and often makes me nervouse with her climbing.

15. Flowers are an obsession. She picks at least one flower a day, and if I don't watch closeley its a handful of flowers. She will even yell from the stroller if she sees one growing because she wants to hold it. Luckily I love to garden so her flower a day habit hasn't affected us to much.

16. She loves to go up and down the stairs. We have 13 carpeted stairs then a hardwood landing and then 5 more hardwood stairs. The hardwood makes me nervous, but Sara holds the spindles when she walks. The crazy little girl likes to go on her but and race Evan down the stairs. Even though we have gates at the top and bottom its a race to get ahead of her each time.

17. Sara loves sprinkles and will eat only eat yogurt if I sprinkle them on top.

18. We love fruit, corn on the cob, pizza, and mozzarella cheese sticks. Sara still refuses to drink milk. She will drink Evans milk but if I give her a cup she will refuse it. I can often sneak it into a smoothie.

19. We run to Grandma and Grandpa each time we see them (they live in our neighborhood so usually its daily). She still gives them big hugs and kisses each time.

20. Lastly sitting on Evans potty and pulling down toilet paper and putting it in the potty. Hopefully this will transition to potty training soon. Each time I tell Evan to go potty (he still likes to use the baby potty occassionally) Sara runs for the bathroom and sits on the potty and we have a fight to get her off of it.

My little girl is growing up quickly, she is affectionate but strong willed, very sympathetic, and has a great sense of humor. She is very good natured and at this point a fantastic eater. She will even give me her plate to signal that she is done.

Summertime

This is our first week on our summer schedule. The schedule is having fun each day. Monday we walked to the village for breakfast and did some shopping at Kohl's and Target. Evan loves to shop and loves to go to Target. He doesn't necesssarily like to shop for Mom stuff but loves to go with me and usually can talk me into something. Lately it has been Cars toys. Tuesday we left the house early and went to Hobby Lobby to pick up some trim for the window treatments my Mom and I are making for my Living and Dining Rooms. It was $1.79 per vard with a coupon versus $6.65 at Joannes. I need 24 yards so it was an enormous savings. We manged to cut out 3 treatments and have 3 more to go. We finished the day with a trip to our neighborhood playground. Today I had a former student come and do our mulch while I played with the kids. We took a trip to the library, Walmart, and on the way home Evan noticed the Theater in town was showing a movie (CARS 2). He asked if it was open and if we could go. I told him we would call Grandma. My parents came and took him to the movie. Sara and I are home alone, this never happens. We went for a 2 mile walk and now we are playing.

I took pictures of the kids yesterday and ordered them from Walmart. When I went to pick them up today they told me they needed a photo release. Confused and annoyed I explained I took the pictures and they argued with me. Just as I was getting to ask for a manager they relented. I guess its a compliment. Waiting in line with Sara trying to climb out of the cart and then being hassled wasn't what I had planned.

Tomorrow I am headed to Fisher Price for a Moms group. The will pay me $50 for each session and told me they last from a 1/2 hour to an hour and are held every other Thursday all summer long. Hopefully I'll be able to make them. I'm hoping Evan and Sara get called to model soon our Fisher Price gift cards are dwindling!

Sick Babies

We had a busy weekend last weekend. We took the kids to ride Thomas the Train in Medina, NY about an hours drive and then from there went to Tulip Festival in Holland. Marc's Aunt and Uncle live in Holland and there is a great parade and small rides for the kids. We had an exhausting day. I ended up sick on Sunday and Monday, I had my Mom take the kids on Monday and I stayed home and slept all day long. It felt weird to be home alone! The Dr's saw me late in the afternoon and gave me a Z pack and 24 hours later I felt fine. Tuesday, Evan started with a cough and it worsened as the week went on.

I took the kids to the Peds Thursday and they told me it was a cold/allegies. We went back Saturday and Evan had a bulging ear drum and Sara Roseola. Sunday his ear ruptured and today I took Sara in and she has an ear infection. We have been lucky and this has been our first round of antibiotics and ear infections for both kids. Trying to get them to take the amoxicillin is another story. Evan can be convinced after lots of whining and Sara threw it up twice today, I'm dreading giving it to her tonight. She went down for a nap at 5pm, she was exhausted.

A funny story, this morning Evan asked for a piece of candy. He looked in the drawer I keep it in and didn't see anything he wanted and then remembered he had Easter Candy on the Dining Room table. Sara watched him and I thought that was the end of it. Evan awoke from his nap this afternoon and I left Sara alone downstairs. We couldn't find her when we came down. She was on top of the Dining Room table unwrapping all of the chocolate candy. Sara was so proud of herself and making a huge mess. I told Evan she was having a feast. Its neat when we can laugh at something together! I wish I would have had my camera ready, I managed to take a few pictures on my cell phone.

Traveling with two

We survived a trip to Grandma's house in Charleston, SC. The kids were fantastic on the flights we left NY at 6am and had a minute flight to Baltimore a short layover and an hour flight to Charleston. Evan was happy to play the first flight and watch a DVD the second flight. Sara napped the second flight.

We had a great time in the warm weather. The kids loved wearing shorts and playing in the sprinkler, swimming in the pool, visiting Folly Beach, the SC Aquarium, going for a carriage ride. Sara is obsessed with dogs and says Whoof- whoof each time she sees them. She saw the horses and continued to yell whoof.

Grandma loved seeing Evan and Sara and each night Aunt Teri had dinner with us. Traveling with kids isn't a true vacation. Our time in the sun is limited, we struggled with naps. Evan now tells us he is cranky and ugly!
On the way home we were getting ready to board the Southwest plane and the woman at the gate called Evan over and had him say "Welcome Aboard". Everyone waiting had a big smile from his tiny voice. It was so sweet, to bad we didn't have a recording! When we landed in Buffalo he started yelling "yay we are in NY", unfortunatly it was 50's and rainy and everyone didn't share his excitement. We are happy to be home and in our own beds!

On the move..

Sara is so busy, she gets into things and does things that at three Evan still hasn't attempted. The other day I heard a new noise and found her behind out couch. She had crawled underneath a sofa table behind it and ended up in the corner of our family room behind the couch. Last week we were playing in Evans bus tent in his bedroom. I heard Sara yelling and didn't see her, she had crawled under Evans toddler bed. The difference between the two of them is night and day. The other day my Mom, who watched them 3 days a week, told me she'd only watch another one if they were like Evan! I signed Evan up for 2 mornings of preschool next year and Sara up for one morning. They will be at the school Evan is at this year. The 2-3 program is a co-op so I have to volunteer 6-8 mornings. Since my Mom won't have both kids on that day she can volunteer with Sara if necessary. We have had a crazy two weeks. The drama of school and budget cuts. Thankfully I was saved by a retirement, and then most of NYS school funding was restored. Hopefully that will restore the jobs of 38 people in my district. I ended up in severe pain one afternoon out of the blue. I serioulsy thought I would pass out from the pain in my chest and abdomen. Here I was alone with the kids and Marc was in NJ. I ended up calling my mom and going to the ER. They diagnosed me with gall stones. They were as shocked as I was. They said its usually fair, fourty, and fat. I meet the fair but thats it. From what I've read online it looks like its from hormones. I have certainly taking enough of those. It is normal to occur after long term birth control use. I guess I was the other end of that hormone use. Hopefully I avoid another episode because then I would need to see a surgeon. A few days later I woke up with a UTI. Ugh, another day off. Thought we were going to have a good week this week and Monday night Evan fell off a kitchen stool. He cried so hard and after an hour complained that his arm really hurt and he didn't want to move it or touch it. We headed back to the ER and as soon as I broke out a new train book he could suddenly move his arm. Although he would still complain about it. I debated stay or leave. We stayed... and stayed.. and stayed... they finally saw us 4 hours later, we finally were put in a room at 10pm, he fell asleep for 20 minutes and they woke us up for Motrin and an xray. The good news no broken bones, we didn't make it home until 11:30pm! His elbow was swollen all week but I think we are finally on the mend. Yesterday was his first bowling birthday party. Evan had a blast!